The beautiful thing about this life is that we are all individuals. Comparing ourselves to others only means that we are not satisfied with who we are as individuals, and that defies our purpose on this earth. The only person who can change that is you.
I am not talking about looking at others who are good role models and striving to become a better person yourself. I am talking about the kind of comparing that makes you feel bad about yourself, that makes you wish you were not you, that makes you envy that other person and think they have it better and easier than you do. Stop. You are unique and incredible--even if you don't believe that yet. You have the potential to be great. The only person who can change that is you.
No one is perfect. We all have flaws that we want to get rid of. Comparing is probably a flaw that most women possess, unfortunately. We need to overcome this because it is deadly to our divine potential.
I believe in personal revelation. Why would anyone need to communicate with God if we were all meant to be the same all the time? The truth is, we all have different likes and dislikes, we all have different talents, and we are all meant to progress towards the same goal in a different way.
We have NO equal when we follow promptings inside our soul because at that point we are on a different level. We are acting at a level that is superior to all the trends of this world. We are acting in accordance to the one who created us, the one who loves us more than anyone else, the one who knows what will make us happy.
Stop comparing. Look at yourself and figure out what it is that you would like to improve on. Then communicate with the one who can help you do that in a way that will truly fill your heart with joy. Comparing only makes you wish you were a little more like someone else. You were not meant to be someone else, you were meant to be you.
Love yourself. If you don't, learn to do so. Loving you for you is happiness. Then you can love others with all of who you are, and that is also happiness.