It's actually easier to shrink, in my opinion, but it fosters bitterness and misery. I've seen it in a lot of people. People who won't share their pocessions, who don't speak up, who are not confident in who they are because at one time or another they were let down or failed and instead of growing, they shrunk...instead of getting better, they got bitter. But tragedy strikes on us all, and it's up to us to choose our reactions.
How do you react when opposition comes?
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